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Surprise Party Invitations

The whole trick of a surprise party invitation is logistics: guests need the arrive-by time (not the start time), a clear shhh, and zero chance the guest of honor sees it. Describe your plan and the invitation handles all three.

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You're in on the secret for

Shh… It's a Surprise

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Saturday, October 16
Arrive by 6:30 PM sharp

Brooklyn Brewery
79 N 11th Street, Brooklyn

RSVP quietly by October 1

She arrives at 7 — don't be the headlights in the driveway

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Surprise Party invitation wording

Classic

Shh… it's a surprise!

Join us to celebrate Sarah's 30th

Arrive by 6:30 PM — she walks in at 7

Brooklyn Brewery · Saturday, October 16

RSVP quietly by October 1

Playful

Operation: Sarah Turns 30

Your mission: be in position by 6:30 PM

The target arrives at 7:00

Brooklyn Brewery · October 16

Loose lips sink surprise parties — RSVP in secret

Elegant

A surprise celebration

in honour of Sarah's thirtieth birthday

Guests are asked to arrive by half past six

Brooklyn Brewery · Saturday, the sixteenth of October

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Wording & etiquette

How do I word a surprise party invitation?A surprise party invitation has to do two things a normal invite never does: get everyone in place before the guest of honor arrives, and keep them quiet. Put the word SURPRISE and a clear 'shhh' at the top, give an arrive-by time that's 20–30 minutes before the reveal, and route the RSVP to someone other than the guest of honor.How far in advance should I send invitations?As a rule: casual get-togethers go out 2–3 weeks ahead, dinner parties and birthdays 3–4 weeks, formal or milestone events 4–6 weeks, and weddings 6–8 weeks — with save-the-dates 6–12 months out. Add time whenever guests have to travel, book time off, or arrange childcare.What is proper RSVP etiquette?RSVP as soon as you know your answer, and always by the date on the invitation — 'RSVP' means a reply is expected either way, yes or no, not only if you're coming. Use the method the host asked for, respond only for the people actually named, and once you've accepted, treat it as a commitment.

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What time do I put on a surprise party invitation?

The arrive-by time, not the party start. Guests need to be in place before the guest of honor walks in — RevelPost writes the invitation around the arrive-by time automatically when you mention it.

How do I keep the surprise off social media?

Say it on the invitation ('RSVP quietly', 'no posts until 8 PM') and send individually by email rather than a public link — each RevelPost invitation is emailed personally with private RSVP tracking.

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